Saturday, May 18, 2013

Thirty Four Years Of Togetherness

It will be very difficult after another generation in the family that i had not talked to my wife before marriage, I did see her one to whom my marriage proposal has been initiated and my parents are asking whether you have seen her. This is the story of some where in late 1978. When I was working with MICO(BOSCH), Nasik as planning engineer. I was sent photograph of her by my parents which I have presences even today in my personal album. I okay ed the proposal and there was no reason not to by.
So, we got married and the story I posted on 21st of May last Year in my blog. An ideal marriages number of year a couple of married need not be mentioned and in these day normally arrange marriages (even large section of the society today also) were supposed to be the ideal marriages, in which not only the two individuals get married but the two families come together. To be precisely we got married in the midnight of 20th May 1979 by English calender and five days after Akshay Tritiya by Hindu Calender by that today is ours thirty fourth marriage anniversary in last thirty four years of togetherness we are blessed with children like Rashmi and Rahul, grand daughters like Anannya and Lavanya.
There are always up and downs in life, at time bitterness in the relationships but I have experienced and practiced that can be avoided. Today I am running 59, my wife 55. We have come to a stage of contention any body would like to have, satisfaction from financial status anybody would like to have, social status anybody would envy. Of course the loneliness because of not living with children pinches but we are getting used to it and would like to write new story in my next blog on 21st May 2014